Well obviously this is probably a typical situation for all your "players" out there. But I've been having sexual relations with this one particular fellow and in my opinion he's a total catch. But all it's been was strictly sex. And sure it's all fun and games in the moment but after I start to think about it and I feel really bad about myself as person. Keep in mind I don't have a overloaded black book, this guy is my only friend with benefits. Of course at the being we came to the conclusion that this was the kind of relationship we'd have with each other and I was cool with it then. But typically I've developed feelings for this guy. Plus there's quite an age difference between us, he's 27 and I'm 18. So I'm not really sure if I should pursue this.
All I really want to know is what a guys perspective on this is. And if it's a good idea to keep going along with it or just forget about it.
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A friends with benefit is an informal business deal. It's only supposed to be mutual sex where both parties are satisfied sexually. The people are supposed to greet each other, have great sex, and move on with their daily rituals. Like any business agreement, terms can change. You are going to have to make him an offer with lots of incentives ( Why do you want more and how is he going to benefit?). However, once making the offer you do risk terminating all agreements since it could be awkward. Ultimately, it depends on you. If you are not satisfied with the current contract with him, make him your new offer. If he denies you, at least you can move on.0