I broke up with him a few days ago because we got into a fight. I was having a really bad week and was crying to him and he told me I was fine. Then a few days later and he was trying to act like everything was fine. I told him I wasn't going to forget my feelings because I'm still upset and want to talk about it. He didn't want to talk about it and it got me really mad and I broke up with him... previous to the break up I'd always felt like I wasn't getting enough support from him. Like I was always giving and barely receiving. I had a party a few days ago and invited him and he was trying to be affectionate again. Acting like we hadn't broke up. I told him no and that I was still mad. But I'm confused because he would act like we were fine and now he's not messaging me or anything, and if I message him asking to meet up and talk he's barely responsive. I don't want to break up officially but I can't stay in a relationship where things don't change. He's not big on communication and I am. I'm in a constant battle with myself If I'm asking for to much, or not he's not giving enough. I don't know what to do
I broke up with him but I don't really want to be broken up?
What Guys Said 0
Be the first guy to share an opinion
and earn 1 more Xper point!
What Girls Said 2
Decide whether he's right for you or not. Sounds like right now you're basically just playing with his feelings, yes-no-yes-no-maybe-no. If he's not that talkative or open about emotions, that's not likely to change, and expecting him to is just gonna drive both of you up a wall.0
He doesn't seem interested in a relationship with you. I know breaking up for good may seem hard, but trust me don't waste your time for a relationship with a guy who doesn't communicate and is not interested. Being with someone who does care and communicate can be actually pleasant!0
Select as Most Helpful Opinion?
You cannot undo this action. The opinion owner is going to be notified and earn 7 XPER points.