My first time being dumped and having to deal with moving on. Is painful. I haven't seen my in a year, and haven't spoken to him in 6months. I love him and still do. He dumped me.
I have been trying to get through its hard. I look at his facebook page and saw his pic and I just started to cry. Its status still said single, I never got the closure, I wanted so it has been real hard. I go to be very lonely...and hurt. I try to keep my faith.
Any have advice?
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Looking up positive quotes, and especially the Dalai Lama helped inspire me. Sometimes I think I'll be single forever and my last crush really hurt my feelings because I was very much into him. Just think positive, and if you believe in a higher power ask and have faith that you will get through it. It won't happen immediately, but the only way you're going to get through this stuff happily is to start trying to make yourself happy. Until recently had I stopped looking at his fb page, and it doesn't happen as much anymore, but I'm slowly getting used to the fact that he won't be there anymore. My higher power is God, and I ask for happiness, whether its within, or me and this guy cross paths again. I also never got closure, but I did get a lie. Lies aren't good. I'd much rather hear the truth then be more hateful later because his truth was a lie. Girl, you will get through this, and eventually be happy, just believe in happiness so that you can achieve it. ..here's a quote I have on my fb info page..I stole it, and I love it. :
"When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spirituality. They may seem like they are sent from the heavens, but in truth, they actually are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and what we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled,their ...work is done. What you have been meditating for has been answered. It is time to move on."See More0