Most Helpful Girl
I see where your heart was, but going forward, I wouldn’t confide in my boyfriends friends ever again. As you can see, things get complicated and they’re a middle man you just don’t want in the equation. As for the situation, don’t beat yourself up anymore. Your intentions were harmless, and if your ex won’t even bother to ask your side of the story, then don’t waste your breath trying to earn his forgiveness over some shit that never happened and was never going to happen. YOU know what you did, and do not need closure or acceptance from him to feel better. Wash your hands of that situation and move on.