Why is it so hard for any woman to be loyal, honest, faithful in a relationship? I've had two long relationship's in my life. I was married once. But both of them ended with them cheating on me. I worked my ass off just to make sure they had everything they wanted. I bought my ex a house a new car. Then my she left me for someone else. My other ex left me for someone else. And asked me if I would wait for her. My first ex and i are good friends. I still help her out when she needs it. She is still with the guy she left me for. He beats her ass all them time. Something I couldn't do to her. My last relationship wasn't the best either. She was controlling and abusive. But I still tried my best in both relationships. I tried to work things out. But yet they left me for someone else. I don't understand why I have loyalty respect and am faithful to the one I'm with. But I can't get it back in return. So that's why I ask why women don't have loyalty respect or faithfulness for the one she is with?
Just don't understand why?
What Girls Said 3
Because you're looking at the wrong women. Think about all your past relationships and watch for patterns that you find in the unpleasant ones, then avoid those in the future.0
Mister, if you choose the wrong women it's your problem and don't complain about them not being loyal.
I am completely sure my partner will be faithful.0
What Guys Said 2
Women don't fall in love with people, they fall in love with the idea of having a partner that they are just barely undeserving of.
It is a highly conditional attraction dependent on the perceived quality of her partner that has to be carefully maintained by the male throughout the entire course of the relationship by repeated displays of superiority.
As such they struggle with being loyal, because the inherent nature of their attraction towards men is incompatible with the concept of loyalty.1
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