I've been dating this girl for a year now, and recently, both my parents sat down with me and told me they don't like her.
Specifically, they said she's "manipulative, dishonest, sneaky, jealous, insecure, and just looking to get married so she can live comfortably."
After they mentioned it, I thought about it, and unfortunately they're right. It's hard to look at her the same way again. But I feel like, "if not her, then who else?"
By that, I don't mean that there's nobody else. But, that's what I'm going to find again anyway. So what difference does it make?
Am I wrong to think like this, or is there really a girl out there that doesn't think this way?
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I think you shouldn't let your parents influence your decision. The only reason you started to think like this is because they put the idea in your head. Just spend time with her and if your not happy when your with her then there is your answer.
I have been in a similar situation, except my friends would always convince me my boyfriend was a not good to me, when I was with them I believed them. I ended up breaking up with him. It was the worst mistake of my life. Its easy to forget all the good things about someone when your away from them and people are talking negatively about them. When your with that person, it can be a whole different story, you forget all the bad things because they make you so happy. Long story short, I have learned my mistake and am now trying to win my ex back which isn't easy. So please don't make a decision unless it is YOUR decision, and yours alone. Your parents are not in the relationship, its none of their business. Make sure you do it because you want to.1