Breakup in a nice way?

How should i break up with ny girlfriend without breaking her heart?
She is sensitive and im afraid she will get hurt but we r not getting along well!!
HELP.


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What Girls Said 4

  • She’s going to get hurt regardless. Make it brief, concise, and try to burn as few bridges as possible. Tell her that she’s still a decent human deserving of love, but you’re not interested in investing more time into the relationship.

    Make sure you emphasise that it’s you who doesn’t want more, and nothing she can do or say will change that. If she respects herself she will accept this, maybe ask what she can do better in the future, or it’s she’s immature, lash out. It’s better for her to be mad than to grovel (and beg for you back).

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  • Do not break up through text please. Just talk to her and tell her things are not the same as before. And maybe you guys can still work it out. Offering friendship is giving false hope. So be honest.

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  • No matter what you do, you will hurt her. Sit down and calmly talk to her and express how you feel and what’s not working. Honesty is best policy...

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  • A private talk is the best. Sit down with her and let her gently know why do you want a break up.

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What Guys Said 3

  • You can't break up with someone without breaking their heart, but you have to put your heart and feelings first. You know you can't stay with her, so you have to end this. There isn't a way to do this without any heart break, and you both will feel it, even if you are the one who wants it to end. But there are ways for it to be less painful than others. You have to tell her you're not happy and that you're not getting along with her and it's getting on your nerves. You don't want to fix things, you don't want to work it out, you just want it over. And she's going to be upset and cry and you might get upset, too, but you know in your heart you can't stay with this girl. And as much as you think you're hurting her, you're doing her a favor. You're going to give her the opportunity to find someone who she can get along with and you're giving yourself the same opportunity.

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  • Just do it in a direct way. Do not fault her for anything. Just explain, that you think she's an amazing person, but that your feelings just faded away somehow, for no particular reason. That she deserves a guy that loves her. That it's your fault, not hers. Then expect her to be sad and cry, but don't really comfort her, that is in fact making it worse in the long run.

    Block all communications and be done with it. Don't offer to stay friends, don't contact her, ignore her attempts to contact you. Just give it time and both of you will be happy again. There aren't beautiful breakups, it's always an ugly thing, so you should just do it fast and get over with it. Completely. The longer you drag it out, the longer you keep in contact, the longer you try to comfort her, the longer it sucks and hurts. Just pull that needle out and be done with it.

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  • Send her a text message and tell her to delete your number.

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