This just happened to pop up on my dashboard while on tumblr and I have to agree with it. For all the people who don't see ghosting as a huge ordeal, why you think people should just brush it off, this is why. You are leading people on and not giving them any kind of closure, rejection hurts anyway so disappearing isn't saving that person any grief. It, in fact, makes it worse and a lot harder to get over you. Why? Cause this person is wondering what they did wrong, wondering what they could have done to fix it, and wondering what made you suddenly leave without a word. You made them feel like everything was okay and that a brand new friendship or relationship was about to occur and then you suddenly dash those hopes but when you decided to go *poof*. Do the right the thing and tell people the truth so they can move on and not loose sleep or better yet their minds over you.
This why people hate ghosting and whats it does to a person emotionally when happens?
O dang I should have put this in dating, didn't really think about it. I never good with categorizing questions lol
What Guys Said 5
I understand the damage it does and how bad it is, however also keep in mind sometimes it is necessary.0
yep not good1
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