Had a crush and turns out he’s a total player and led me on for the sake of his own ego. Even though I like him way less now, I still think he’s cute and i’m having trouble completely moving on from him. Help a girl out 😞 This was also my first time ever making a move on a guy so I feel like my self confidence just got lowered even more.
Most Helpful Guy
I'm sorry that you crushed on a player. I hope you find better luck in other guys. Don't worry about your self confidence too much okay! If he went after you even if it was just leading on, you must be quite an attractive girl for him to want you on "his list". Not saying that you are all about looks, I'm sure you are a great person too! Cheer up my dear, you'll find youself another.
Talk to more people. Start a hobby. Life isn't about liking guys, it's about doing what makes you happy. You know he isn't good for you so eventually your mind will gravitate to better people. Good luck! I wish only happiness for you!1
Most Helpful Girl
Dont feel bad! The guy is scummy. Why feel bad about that? You totally saved yourself time and even more heartache. Everytime you think he's cute remind yourself of a flaw he has, whether it's that he's a total douchebag or he's a wannabe whatever, even a physical flaw. Dont put yourself down. You had an attraction to him and went off of that. It's normal. Accept that. Accept that you put yourself out there and reeled in a moron. It happens. You don't get to know the person after a while. Feel better knowing that you had the courage to do something out of your comfort zone. Because it's a learning experience.1