Recently broke up with my long time off and on boyfriend. He cheats and constantly inappropriately texts other girls, and lies to my face even when he knows I've already read all the receipts in his phone. But then he swears he loves me so much.. How? Do you think you can love someone but treat them this way?
Most Helpful Guy
If you aren't into him any more, break up with him. To answer the question, yes he can love you and want to have sex with other girls at the same time-- that's extremely normal, like most of us want to have sex with lots of girls. But clearly he's also not taking your feelings into account, and it makes sense that that would bother you. It sounds like you could have an open and honest, non-judgemental face to face conversation with him about this and talk things over. And if you don't come to some kind of understanding, or you're no longer into him, then you can leave him if you want. It's all in your hands. Good luck.1
Most Helpful Girl
I usually say that if he loves you he wouldn't cheat because if he did cheat then the harsh reality is that he didn't really love you.3