What do you do when you're sad and miss your ex?
What Guys Said 36
I try to remember the reasons why we broke up and remind myself that they are a package deal; if I went back to them, I would get all the good along with the bad.
I also remind myself about the good things that I had with my ex and I think about other relationships where I also got those same good things (like holding hands frequently or spooning when we go to sleep) and then I tell myself that I can find those things with other people, also.1
Take care of yourself. Think on how's your life going and whether you like it all or not. A classic approach is getting to do something you've always wanted to do, like grabbing an instrument, or changing your dress code, so you do not only feel like you've been over something new that made you grow up, but actually you look different as well.
Feel free to pm if you want more suggs, but overall, in the long run time puts everything in their belonging place. :)2
pretty much anything else, i. e. try to be of service to other people, watch some comedy, hang out with friends the point is 1. you want to do something to get out of yourself ( hence service work or volunteering)
2. you don't want to be alone1
I usually go into a bad state of depression for 6 months then emerge from my bedroom 2 years later and wonder where did the other 18 months go?1
remember why you broke up. thats what i do. then i feel angry afterwards and frustrated.1
nothing wrong with being sad about the end of a relationship, or missing a person who has been a part of your life.
feel it, it will pass. and remind yourself why it didn't work out so you don't get swamped in regrets.0
Keep busy , exercise a lot, start writing, or go on weekend or even day trips where u maybe go hike, indoor rock climbing, etc... or if you just can't do things without thinking of them, go out and find a new person who maybe looks similar or talks similar to the ex but make sure the personality is totally different. At least this way you have a new fixation.0
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Distract myself however possible0
When im sad i just wish i had a girlfriend in the first place 😕0
watch a movie play games play music... any hobby you have1
i realize that there are far more important things in life, than missing my ex0
Hang out with your friends and/or Family. Do something fun that gets your mind off of it.0
I don't have an ex0
I go outside and take a long walk.0
Consider the specifics about what you liked about them and for me realize how common those traits really are.0
Simply put - Fap. Works every damn time.0
Unfortunately there's no easy answer. Try to take it one day at a time, do things you enjoy and try to distract yourself, getting out of the house and being around is definitely a good idea, wallowing at home not so much. It gets better over time0
I jack off to their picture. I did that to both ex boyfriend and girlfriend0
I masturbate to porn to overcum the feelings of her0
I sing sad songs.0
Visit her fb profile and check pics0
I wrote a dairy and write my feeling in it in a poetic way0
Typically i dont get sad but i just review the videos i made of us fucking and im in a better mood0
Sleep.. have a dream of her..0
I just try to get busy in something0
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What Girls Said 13
Every single time my ex popped into my head I would do something so it took my mind off it, for example if it was during the day I'd call a friend and go out, or at night, which it usually was, i'd watch a video (s) and go to sleep1
I simply try to let go of that mood.
He is an “ex” for a reason and I deserve better than him!
I remind myself how awful it was to go though that shit (that I went through).
I am a very independent person but I have no funds to be independent on my own.
If I had more money and my own car, I would go pick my best friend, drive out of town and have some fun! Get cute and flirt with sexy guys!!1
Do something to occupy myself. Talk with a friend. If it's really killing me, after a while I'll shoot them a text or something. Luckily with my ex he makes it very clear he doesn't give a shit about me, so when I text him it reminds me not to waste my time.0
Exercise, keep myself busy. Never give in and message him.1
I get angry and feel like punching him0
try and keep yourself busy0
I listen to songs thay remind me of him.0
Listening to music has a been a big help for me.0
Keep busy with friends doing activities I enjoy as a distraction, get some endorphins flowing through exercise to boost my mood and clear my head. Never give into the urge to get in touch.
For the guys that said madturbate, I'm curious, how/why does this work?1
I just sleep0
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