It has been 8months now that we had broke up , we were in 2years relationship back then , the breakup was painful for both of us , I decided not to talk to her anymore , she was against . She tried to get in touch some weeks after the break up without me replying .
Today I received an email from her , telling me that she wants to know what I've become , that she still misses me , and she wants to get in touch .
I've already moved on , I think she did too since I think she's in a relationship too .
I just want to know , why do you girls would like to open a broken book ..!
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wow you sound like my ex, the question here is why do you try to close the book on us? What did we do so horrible to you that we don't exist for you anymore?
But to answer your question first, she wants to see if you've changed or still the same guy she was with months ago. I'll explain it from my point of view, I myself am still trying to talk with my ex again but he doesn't consider me anything at all, not even a friend! -_- I try talking to him but all he does is give me one word answers which is unacceptable for me, when lonng time ago we were "hot" for each other and now he's being a d***.
So here might be some reasons she's contacting you:
1-she of course misses you
2- she wants to hear how you're doing and what you've been doing lately.
3- who do you hang out with still, and what do you talk about now.
4- where do you go at night?
5-do you have a girlfriend right now or are you single?
These will be the things I'd want to know about MY ex, I am positive so will your ex want to know all this.
You don't have to tell her but be kind to her, don't be a d*** like my ex and shut her out completely. Its really wrong and really uncalled for; because one day you may be still attached to one girl you dated and she'll be telling you "move on I am over you, don't contact me anymore". You'll be hurt and crushed, although you say this one has a boyfriend, but I highly doubt it...0