I understand that not all men will cheat or step out of their relationship but unfortunately the reality is that the vast majority of them do.
So outside of two of the more obvious reasons which are A) they can and B) they don't believe they will get caught what are some more actual reasons as to why they do such a horrible thing on either a wife/girlfriend?
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OK...here's my opinion. Most men don't know who they really are. They think they are supposed to act a certain way and do. They think that if a woman gives them any attention then they are supposed to chase her down and f*** her. Most men are not able to deal with their emotions. They run...they hide from them and instead of being a true man and not letting themselves get into a situation, they try to be some big macho a-hole and ACT in a way that they THINK they're supposed to.
Some married men think that it's OK to have a girlfriend. Their fathers did, so this is what they have learned.
Another opinion is...that men are instinctively...ANIMALS. ANd their brain has not fully evolved. There is an instinct that makes them want to be the alpha male. Like in any herd of animals, the alpha wants to dominate the female species, and mate with all of them. Have you ever noticed when a very beautiful woman walks into a room...almost every guy there pumps up to show that THEY are the alpha...even if they are there with their spouse.
I have never cheated on a girlfriend or wife. That has got to be the worst thing that you could do to the person you love. But, besides my brothers and me...I think every guy friend I know has cheated on their wife/girlfriend.
Women cheat too, but I know that's not your topic today.1