My ex boyfriend and I are friends. We did have a bad break up. He was the one that left me and I was deeply hurt, but still communicated and do everyday, either chat online, text or phone call.
We were together 4 years and broke up July 2009. It was an LDR
Since then he has dated a few times, I have not as am not ready to date anyone and want to enjoy doing things for myself for the moment.
Here's the thing. up to recently things have been a bit weird. I did call him and did tell him that there were times that I did miss him and all the fun stuff we used to do and I said that I am sure it was the same for him and he said yes to that.
OK, I told him I was going over to his country for a visit, suddenly there was a girl on the scene and he was meeting with her the day after I was due over. I canceled my trip, as something came up work wise that I couldn't go. I told him I wasn't coming the next week and he had been working over time to get time off to spend a day with her, but she didn't want to talk to him much, so it was off.
I have been chatting with a nice guy recently, and my ex asked me about him, So OK told him. My ex told me that he had met a girl in the group he is with and he told me about her and I told him that she sounds like me and he said yes. Not a day after they went out, when he told me that he and her are just friends cos of the group.
Today I rang him and told him that I think Bob and me will just be friends, my ex then told me that he and this girl from the group are still going to see each other, I was taken aback as it was different to what he said the day before. I did tell him that it was different, he said yea, and he said she knows about me.
He also sent me a text today telling me a fave movie of mine was on TV and he said he was watching it. He then sent me a night text .
I really don't get my ex... is he playing games with me?
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Honestly it sounds like both of you stil have feelings for each other. But long distance relationships rarely work out in my opinion. I think you need to have a chat with him over the phone about this and decide what you guys want to do. Would you be prepared to move to his country or would he be prepared to move to yours to really give things a go?
What was the reason he broke up with you in the first place?
It doesn't sound like either of you are getting a proper chance to move on because you stay in contact the wholes time.0