Me and my now ex boyfriend broke up few days ago
Last week we have been arguing about some petty shit:
Last Monday, I've tried to break up with him because he wasn't listening to my concerns but then he got upset and didn't wanna break up and kept apologizing and all that so we didn't break up and we made up
Then few days later, we argued about something on social media and my trust issues. He got sick of it and wanted to break up but then he drove to see me and then we made up
Then the next few days, we got more closer and we were back to normal
And then this Monday, we fought over something I saw on his instagram (him following a hot model) and how i keep questioning him about it and how im pissed off about it and then he got angry about it and just broke up with me just like that
He blocked me on everything like what the fuck?
We have been together for 1 year 4 months
Im his longest relationship out of all his exes
How could he just cut me off just like that?
He treated me so good and all that and then he did this out of nowhere
Its so unexpected
Do you guys think he might come back?
Its been 5 days now no contact
- He will probably come backVote A
- Nah dont think he will come backVote B
Most Helpful Guy
Well, you keep arguing and fighting over stupid crap! You could use it as a means to kiss and make-up afterwards to keep your relationship strong but you can't keep it up without something to bring you back together and you can't keep threatening to break-up whenever you have a heated fight over stupid crap! That sounds very immature, although, I have been there and lost a girl, but I think it was intentional...
Also, you need to give your boyfriend some trust and benefit of the doubt. Yeah, so what if he is following a hot model on instagram, is there a snowball's chance in hell that he will hook up with her? Furthermore, why are you stalking your boyfriend on instagram! Do yourself a favor, STOP! It's creepy as hell if he stalks you on social media, so how about you stalking him?
You both obviously need some time to cool off and think about what you both are threatening to give up on, a long term relationship! Trust me, these kinds of relationships are not something you want to throw away once you have them! I hope he does come back or contacts you, and if he does, REMEMBER THIS COMMENT TO YOU! Work on your relationship, stop stalking him on social media, trust your boyfriend a little bit, and stop fighting over stupid crap! Life is too short to argue about nothing and lose a good relationship from it!
Most Helpful Girl
You basically don't trust him and is starting the argument on petty things he does on social media, what's wrong with following someone? You have him right? Well had , but that should have never bothered you, I'm sure you follow guys too and guys follow you, the fact that you said he treated you well , shows that he really just loves you, if he didn't love you then he wouldn't have been treating you so good and to tell you the truth you don't deserve him because all you do is make a big deal out of everything , plain talk bad manners.
He got fed up of you hun. He was trying all this time to forget how you act but this time you really done it, and it was too much for him. Its like you're telling him he can't talk to girls only you. You just have a problem with everything your ex does, you really should get that checked, I'm not bashing you or anything I'm just stating the facts and my opinion.2