My boyfriend just broke up with me over an argument?

Me and my now ex boyfriend broke up few days ago
Last week we have been arguing about some petty shit:
Last Monday, I've tried to break up with him because he wasn't listening to my concerns but then he got upset and didn't wanna break up and kept apologizing and all that so we didn't break up and we made up
Then few days later, we argued about something on social media and my trust issues. He got sick of it and wanted to break up but then he drove to see me and then we made up
Then the next few days, we got more closer and we were back to normal
And then this Monday, we fought over something I saw on his instagram (him following a hot model) and how i keep questioning him about it and how im pissed off about it and then he got angry about it and just broke up with me just like that
He blocked me on everything like what the fuck?
We have been together for 1 year 4 months
Im his longest relationship out of all his exes
How could he just cut me off just like that?
He treated me so good and all that and then he did this out of nowhere
Its so unexpected
Do you guys think he might come back?
Its been 5 days now no contact
  • He will probably come back
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  • Nah dont think he will come back
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Don't argue with guys for such lame reasons!. He just followed a model and that doesn't mean anything. All that thing matters is that he didn't cheated u or treated badly or anything like that. U clearly stated that he was so nice.
    The thing that u have to know is that if u loose someone in life then it will be hard to get him/her back. If u have luck, then he will come back to u. If u have trust issues, then deal with it. Talk to him and make sure that he won't leave ya. He didn't even wanted to breakup, u asked for it. What if he thinks that u needed a breakup? One wrong move will make it worse. If u know that u made a mistake, then just contact him once and that's all. If he really loves u, he will come back. Who knows that if he is waiting for ur call? So go for it.

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    • Do u think he will come back by himself?


    • Might be tough if u don't make a move. Last time he made move to solve the issues and that's what I understood while reading that. I am not sure about it that he is going to come back soon. As the time goes on, there is chance that he is going to move on. If he doesn't and he is in pain, then he would come back to u if he cannot handle out things running up in his mind. At least try to reach him out by watching SC stories or liking instagram photos or something like that.
      K, i have an idea. Wish him for this Christmas or just give him an advance wish!. If u cannot wait more then just text him by just saying ~~°sorry°.

Most Helpful Girl

  • You basically don't trust him and is starting the argument on petty things he does on social media, what's wrong with following someone? You have him right? Well had , but that should have never bothered you, I'm sure you follow guys too and guys follow you, the fact that you said he treated you well , shows that he really just loves you, if he didn't love you then he wouldn't have been treating you so good and to tell you the truth you don't deserve him because all you do is make a big deal out of everything , plain talk bad manners.

    He got fed up of you hun. He was trying all this time to forget how you act but this time you really done it, and it was too much for him. Its like you're telling him he can't talk to girls only you. You just have a problem with everything your ex does, you really should get that checked, I'm not bashing you or anything I'm just stating the facts and my opinion.

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    • Yeh i understand.. i realized that
      Do u think he will come back?
      If he really loved me, why would he just cut me off like that?

    • Well, I think he's really mad , give it some time and if he doesn't do anything, go see him and apologise to him, and if does talk call you , still apologise to him.

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What Guys Said 26

  • Well, you keep arguing and fighting over stupid crap! You could use it as a means to kiss and make-up afterwards to keep your relationship strong but you can't keep it up without something to bring you back together and you can't keep threatening to break-up whenever you have a heated fight over stupid crap! That sounds very immature, although, I have been there and lost a girl, but I think it was intentional...

    Also, you need to give your boyfriend some trust and benefit of the doubt. Yeah, so what if he is following a hot model on instagram, is there a snowball's chance in hell that he will hook up with her? Furthermore, why are you stalking your boyfriend on instagram! Do yourself a favor, STOP! It's creepy as hell if he stalks you on social media, so how about you stalking him?

    You both obviously need some time to cool off and think about what you both are threatening to give up on, a long term relationship! Trust me, these kinds of relationships are not something you want to throw away once you have them! I hope he does come back or contacts you, and if he does, REMEMBER THIS COMMENT TO YOU! Work on your relationship, stop stalking him on social media, trust your boyfriend a little bit, and stop fighting over stupid crap! Life is too short to argue about nothing and lose a good relationship from it!

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  • I don't know if he will come back but if he loves you then he will definitely call you. My advice for both of you is you both should give some space to each other. Respect each other, have some trust between you. Respect each other's beliefs and opinions. Don't get jealous and angry if he likes some hot model on Instagram. That hot model will marry a superstar or something so no need to worry.

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  • Men are turned off by trust issues. Having a model on his Instagram is like a guy looking at porn once in a while, if he's in a long term relationship, what's the problem with rubbing one out? It certainly doesn't sound like you live together, so porn is going to be an occasional thing. The fact is you keep bringing it up, you push for a breakup then when things are resolved you keep bringing them back up. I'll bet while you talk to other guys you just say "they're only friends." But when he has one I'll bet your all over his ass. He'll probably come back but with your insecurities it will be an on and off relationship because you want trust but your unwilling to give it without a catch.(to put simply, When your more worried about what porn he watches, it tells me to be worried about what men you talk to. You can't force him to do anything and it sounds like you are)

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  • Well 3 almost break up you know its about to break for real.. Now you add over jealousy on top its over (its a model its not like its a girl friend he has...) you pushed him to the limit we guy hate jealousy when its too much and you went over the limit

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  • Sounds like he's confused, and stressed, he's lashing out and he doesn't know why. He loves you, but I'm willing to bet that he doesn't feel great about the relationship, and doesn't know if he should stay or not. Give him space to think.

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  • I think you questioning him too much must have made him think you don't trust him and so he blocked you from everything.

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  • This didn't happen just like that. It's about a lot of little things that happened over time. It's about all of it combined. It sounds like the relationship has had problem for some time now. I'm assuming there is more you didn't mention.

    I don't know if he will come back, or if that's even a good idea or not. If you get back together, what has changed? If nothing has changed, then it will likely continue on like it has been.

    You guys seem to have differences that you haven't been able to resolve. It sounds like it's gotten to the point that he, or both of you, are questioning if it's worth the effort of trying to resolve things.

    These things are almost never one-sided. You have no control over him, but you do have control over yourself. So think about your end in this.

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  • Your relationship is fucking retarded and you should never get back together. Threatening to break up is some of the most mind fucking bullshit you can do to someone. Both of you are idiots and need a good kick in the head.

    You're quite literally a man's nightmare. Fighting over him following a model on IG. Jesus Christ what a petty bitch. Talk to a therapist and take some lessons on how to behave. I pity any man who crosses paths with you. Yeah he treated you good for ages despite all of your disgusting behaviour but everyone has a limit. Congratulations you just made him find his.

    Thank god that guy escaped. I wish I could buy him a beer for dumping your sorry ass.

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  • I don't think he will come back but I definitely feel he shouldn't

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  • He is not right for you dear, you deserve much better because theses little fights are very common but what he is doing is not expected out of such a good relationship

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    • You are quite literally retarded. This woman is a petty nutjob and any man's worst nightmare.

    • @Cursewords I agree

    • Stop fucking flirting dude be real and put real opinion not a dating site buddy

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What Girls Said 13

  • Seems like a lot of arguments for a single year. Insecurity is a big factor on most breakups. He could have blocked you because he doesn't want to come back at once since perhaps he is insecure too and wants to convince himself to stay away. In general this sounds like a toxic relationship so I don't recommend trying to get back into it.

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    • What do u mean "he doesn't want to come back at once"? Like u mean he doesn't want to come back at all?

    • Yeah if he's blocked u completely then he wants nothing to do with u. he's tired so no he's not coming back

  • He blocked u bc ur spying. why are u watching who he follows? that shows you don't trust him but why don't you trust him? are u insecure or has he cheated in the past?

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  • If you’re having issues and you don’t trust him then I doubt he’ll come back to deal with it again.

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    • He might if he has no spine.

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    • There is nothing really to talk about were giving you the exact reasons why he broke up. People need to be with someone who trusts them not someone trying to constantly control them.

    • Of course you can love someone, but realize that you don't get along well, and it's better to cut ties and move on. Just because a relationship, doesn't mean it never had any value in the first place. You need to be a little bit more mature and just accept this is how it turned out, and use these lessons to inform your next relationship.

  • He didn’t cut you off “just like that” lol it had been a constant argument over the same thing.
    Anyone is going to get sick of it eventually

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    • So you think he will never come back?

  • Listen just DONT WORRY he keeps coming back to you he just needs time and tbh he shoudn't make you jealous and when you guys ever meet like acidently then ask him like why is making you feel jealous like that is not good and he seems to have a bad temper and he will come back just dont listen to those wh vote NO b/c that just seems legit BS to me it just needs time and he keeps coming back like what does that mean? OBV it means he cares he just gets mad that's all really and yeah he will come back :) x

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  • just cut him off
    nothing sucks worse than being in a relationship than not being heard or even RESPECTED enough to be listened to.
    get some self respect & find a new dude

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  • Your opinions and feelings do matter and any guy that doesn't take that into consideration and has a dumb instagram account you don't want to waste your time with. Its not normal for a heterosexual man to have instagram.

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    • Talk about not learning a tying in 36 years. Men can't have Instagram? What a ridiculously sexist and fucking stupid thing to say. There are millions of hereto males. Normal, musicians, celebs, etc. Who have instagram. Are you that fucking stupid?

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    • Bye Felicia

    • Were you really just stupid enough to use your real name?

  • You should probably just break up and stay broken up at this point.

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  • THIS ISN'T A QUESTION

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  • Stupid

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