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Don't wallow in how you feel and hope he pities you. Be consistently sweet and a good person to him. That's all you can do to make it up to him. Even something as simple as a card every few days..
When you cheat on someone it's very hard to regain their trust back, if not impossible. Do you think you could trust someone that cheated on you? It's really hard to recover from that for men, and if they do recover the relationship will never be the same.
Just meet him and tell him that you are sorry for everything you have done and you will not do anything like this again. Wait for his answer. If he still not answer to you then try this 2-3 times through different ways.
And if nothing works, leave him.
Good guys can be found anywhere.
Did you cheat on him? İf I was your guy id think well whats to stop her from doing it again? You failed big time, it takes a lot to cheat on your loved one considering the effort you two made to build the relationship. If your guy never cheated on you I really dont see why he should even consider forgiving you. İts an insult, even if he does forgive you Men will never never forget that act. Give me a single reason why you think he should forgive you.
If I were you I'd take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror, figure out why you did such a despicable act and then send your ex a letter of apology and move on. BUT do not get back into a relationship for some time, because jumping right back into a relationship would be no different than rewarding yourself for a terrible act.
Not only that but if/when your next significant other finds out you were once a cheater, it could lead to further problems for you. So again, give yourself time out of a relationship to figure out why you did, what you did.
You can never fully fix something like that. Even if you get him to forgive you by some miracle, he will never quite feel the same about you.
Plus any future SO you get won't like you as much as they could have since you are a disloyal cheater.
Some decisions in life, there is no going back from. Now you have to live with yourself.
If my girlfriend of 5 years cheated on me, I could never trust her again. You have to look at it from his point of view. You've betrayed his trust, add for me, once a cheater, always a cheater. Even if they never would
You fucked up I hate cheaters you should just give up be ouse how is he suposidly to know you won't do it again
If you really cheated by having sex, then I'd say leave it be. If it was something else that just made him jealous, then just move on, he needs to grow up. Understand that anything beyond talking or a distant hug is cheating (kissing, embracing, holding hands, cuddling, dirty dancing, etc).
Ohh babe u did Wrong... give him space leave him alone for few days... if he loves u than he will come to u. Just have patience
It's possible to fix but it's also the exact opposite of a cakewalk. Only works if both people are willing to build the relationship back up.. which is most of the reasoning as to why it's so hard.
You just have to give him time and space. Cheating is a really damaging thing to do in a relationship. A cheater regretting their actions isn't going to change anything.
You might have lost him for good. How long have you been together? For me if my girl cheated I would most likely not leave her simply because we have been together so long.
You're a disgrace and you don't deserve your boyfriend. There is literally nothing you can do to make it up to your boyfriend.
As other people said, take a good hard long look at yourself and never, ever do that again to anyone else. Honestly you need to fall for someone hard and have them cheat on you just so you know how disgusting and pathetic doing that to someone is.
I hope he never makes the mistake of taking you back. No matter what happened between either of you, you don't deserve him and he'd undoubtedly never trust you properly again.
Move on and don't ever do this again.
Not sure what you are talking aboit! Did you cheat or not? You are still together, but he blocks you? What is this called? Relationshit?
Leave him alone. You've broke him don't destroy him anymore for your own selfish wants
Hope, and pray. Things won't be the same ever again but you can always try to talk to him.
Honestly, I've read all your replies and it seems like you feel more sorry about being caught than hurting him. All you go on about is what about you and what about all the effort you put in to the relationship (not much since you cheated). But what about him? He's hurting way more than you are right now. Never once did you ask how you can gain his trust back or how you can prove that you won't cheat again.
You only care about yourself, your actions (cheating) and replies are proof of that.
Lmao you deserve it. Learn your lesson and move on. He won´t come back, never will.
Pretty much nothing, trust is pretty hard to gain back once you lose it.
Well you done fucked up just leave him alone he deserves better
I've been with my guy for 5 years, and I love him enough not to cheat on him. I can't think of anything that will make me want to cheat on him cause I truly do love him. Not sure how you did it.
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