My husband has a double life. I can't trust his word because he breaks it o much. He lies without a second thought and I am the one getting hurt. I love him and he knows that but it seems that he is using my love for him against me. I don't even have his cell number. He is leaving the state we live in soon and I have only saw him a few times. He doesn't contact me but he does pop up over my house at odd hours of the night. If he tells me he is coming back he never does. I don't get any respect from him he treats me like a random female and not the woman he married.
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honestly, I think divorce should not be taken lightly. and of course in your case he is hurting you and being seemingly unreasonable. it's certainly not right to not be treated with the respect you deserve as a wife. Do you know what the reason is behind his 2-faced life? I think maybe you should consider this first and figure out what to do after that. I'm not against you divorcing him because I honestly think it is very hard to stay in a marriage that doesn't give you the support and love that you need. Does he still have those qualities that you found in him when you decided to marry him? How long have you been married? Is he at all willing to speak to you about this, and have you told him about your problem with his actions? Is he willing to see a marriage counselor? If he won't change and won't consider your feelings (and if time won't change anything either), then I believe it is time to move on.
He is taking you for granted right now, and you should let him know that and give him a chance to respond, at least, before you file for divorce.
I sincerely hope everything ends well for you, whatever your decision may be.0