It's been 2 months since we last saw each other. He was great with me the last time I saw him but after that I could tell that he just didn't want to see or speak to me anymore. He confuses me because 2 months after he broke up with me he contacted me because he felt bad so that's how we started hanging out again. Well It's been 4 months now since our 2 1/2 year relationship ended. I'm going crazy and I do miss him. This month I have will have to see him for his sisters confirmation and I don't want it to be awkward. Should I call him? I don't want to fill up his ego again...I've been trying to not talk to him for the past month and a half and now I'm caving in because he's been in my dreams the past 2 weeks which has been annoying me...I still love him and want him back so would calling him be a good idea?
Should I call my ex boyfriend?
What Guys Said 1
Dont call him, I made the mistake of bringing my ex back into my life and just got hurt again. Its one of those things where the best plan on action is to do nothing2
What Girls Said 1
He broke up with you so don't call him. You are the prize and so therefore you should be treated like one. Don't do all the work. If he wants to talk to you, he will. Keep up with the "no contact." Don't fill his ego. Sounds like he only calls you just to see if you still like him. Which gives him an instant ego boost when you show/say you do. Let him come to you...I know you miss him terribly. I am in the same situation. I am not giving in anymore to my ex. It took me almost a month to get to this point, but I finally feel like I am getting a grip back on my life.
At least if you can be open to the idea of you two talking at the confirmation, but don't make it a point and go out of your way to make it happen.1
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