Unless they were just awful and treated you terribly, how can someone not miss their ex? Mine told me he didn’t and it really hurt because we had an awesome relationship and not a nasty breakup.
Most Helpful Guy
Because I know she wasn’t the one for me. She’s my ex for a reason, we were never meant to be. Sure it sucks and your emotions are assholes. But as long as you remember that your match is out there somewhere and as you progress as a human you will come to a point where you will find that person more easily. Life experience seems to do that in my opinion.0
Most Helpful Girl
If you're over them, then you won't miss them. Maybe you'll think back and be like "ah, that time was awesome" but that doesn't necessarily mean that you miss them. I have drifted apart from a few old friends. It just became a bit harder to keep in touch, we grew apart. I wish them all the best in life, but I don't miss them. I can recognize that we've grown apart and we simply have different lives now, with different people in them.
Some people are just really good at leaving the past in the past. If what he says is true, it just means that he has moved on now. You are simply not a part of his life anymore, at least not in the way you were when you were together.
I understand that it might hurt but at the same time, you should try to not miss things that are in the past and you can't do anything about anymore. I'm sure your relationship was awesome, but it would be much healthier for you to live in the moment and look forward to the future. You can cherish the past, but missing it is what's really hurtful here.0