Okay I'm with someone I really care about and my ex has been slagging me off to everyone he has a girlfriend to but he has been saying I'm texting him and I'm a slut and he's going to tell all my secrets and I'm worried he will should I tell everything he said to me or threaten him with it ?
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Well I think firstly that you should let your current boyfriend and friends know what he's been doing, so that if he does start saying things, the people that are important to you will already know the truth and expect horrible things from him. It's really childish what he's doing though! If I were you I'd try to cease all contact with him and try to distance yourself from him as much as possible! I think it would be difficult to verbally threaten him because he seems like the sort that wouldn't be bothered and I certainly wouldn't get your current boyfriend involved otherwise it could get messy. I would just try to ignore him and make those close to you aware of what he's like and what he might do. Otherwise, if you can't avoid him and you end up seeing him, why not teach him a lesson that you won't be messed with by either kicking or kneeing him in the balls as hard as you possibly can?! lol He might think twice about treating you badly in future. Have you not thought about doing something like that?...1
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