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I feel sorry for you. I know what it is like to invest in a relationship over a number of years only to have it shattered. Your ex is in a rebound relationship, and usually they never last. What ages is he? He may be going through male menopause and his hormones could be acting up.
Driving by your house, is a bit weird and stalkerish, especially if he is suppose to be with someone else. I don't know why him driving by gives you hope! If he wanted something from you, he would talk with you or make some effort to communicate but so far he hasn't.
He may be someone who gets engaged by never marries, there are people out there that are like that. Seen as he met someone so soon after you, is a bit strange in that it is possible he may have known her before. Looking up on FB is a no no. I have done that myself and looked up my ex's account, but have stopped as I realized it only hurt me more so, So don't look it up again.
I know you are hurting right now. I have been in your situation, crying, not sleeping, not eating properly and basically, just functioning. You should not be on your own at this time, you need the love and support of family and friends. You are not alone in this. Ok.
What you need to do, is have a spring clean. Get all his stuff, everything and bag it and put it away, perhaps in the attic, somewhere out of sight. Once you have room, start redecorating. move furniture around, give the house a new look. Get some lovely scented candles and fresh flowers. Watch comedy programs and moves, have a laugh with friends, The last thing you need is to be on your own as being on your own can make you think of him and that's the worst thing you could do for yourself .
Just be patient with yourself and take each day as it comes. Rome wasn't built in a day. So just take it easy and talk with friends and family and sort out your house and soon you will feel better.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE