Was with a guy for over a year and I fell in love with him. Everything seemed wonderful like a fairy tale and at the end he started to distance his self and stop talking to me all together about 2 months ago. I never been dumped and it hurts. I have a hard time at work, I barley sleep, and I just want the pain to stop and move on. I really want closure! I try to keep my self busy and I have been asked out on dates but all I do is think about him. For anyone out there who has been dumped and hurt ...How do you move on?
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I was dumped by my ex of 4 years. He immediately starting dating and is now onto his 4th or 5th since me. We are 'friends' but on his terms. He isn't the same guy I loved so much and his sole life purpose and attention is solely on his relationships, friends don't matter as does anyone else.
It has been just over a year now, since he broke from me, and I am still trying to hold on to fading hope we will get back together, but I know its fruitless. What kills me more than anything, is I wish I had not given so much of myself to him. I honestly thought we were life partners and together always.
I have been asked out and have passed on them. There is a new guy on the scene, and I do like him, but I can completely understand how it all feels for you and all you can think about is your ex.
Naturally, he must have made some impact on your life to make you feel this way, ( mine did)
All I can tell you from me who is still going through moving on, is just take each day as it comes, some days are better than others, but I think that time although heals some wounds doesn't heal all. You can never completely forget someone who has been in your life.
You are doing what you can. The only thing I would totally refrain from is watching movies you watched with him and romantic movies also the same applies to music.
I wish you all the best and I hope things get better for you soon.
Chin up :)0
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