I was dating my boy for a year and everything was going well. Then out of the blue he calls me and says he wants to break up. He said he wasn't attracted to me anymore and didn't even know why! I was in shock. He didn't even dump me in person! I asked his friend about his odd behavior and she said, that he's always fickle and wants to be single. Then the next day he texted me blaming me for everything, I was furious. He won't answer my calls. That was 3months ago and I still haven't heard from him. Did he cheat on me? He won't even talk to me! I'm heartbroken and so confused. I got no closure at all. It hurts so much to be dumped so callously.
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hey I am in a similar position, I have been on and off with my boyf for 4 years. been back with him since Xmas and really do have an amazing relationship, however I am moving to uni tommorow and although we had discussed breaking up we decided to work at it. about 4 days ago he text me saying its not going to work and he doesn't feel the same. it felt like my heart had literally been ripped out my chest. I was texting him loads and he was jus saying it was over and I was making it harder for myself asking questions. now he won't even answer my calls or reply to my texts.
i realized last night that there is nothing more I can do, after all if they loved you as much as they said they did they would be here no matter what. You've just got to pick yourself up and do the things you want to do, don't wait around for him to call because he probably wont. I know its hard, I still woke up today with that empty feeling and cried but it will get better. there is no point being in a one way relationship. Just learn from it and definately don't contact him it will only make you feel worse nif he doesn't reply, if he wants to get in touch he will but by then you could have already moved on to better things. Just keep smiling and try not to let it bring you down0