And what did you talk about?
- Never ever talk to ex. I'm done.Vote A
- Yes, I have. Painful talkVote B
- Yes, nice catch up.Vote C
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I actually do like to keep in touch with my exes.
I mean, not right after we break up, but a few months/years after that I usually send a message to ask if everything is all right (of course it depends on the break up story).
When I travel near where they live, I even ask if they want to meet, just like I'd do with any friend. Each time I got to do that, I had the opportunity to ask some things about how I was, what mistakes my ex thinks I've made, etc. Months/Years after, it doesn't hurt, but it's really helpful to understand what really happened and how I can act to avoid making the same mistakes again.
Most people don't feel the same, I always wondered why. Maybe this is because my parents have been divorced since I was 2, remaining nice to each other the whole time...1