If you met a girl that you really liked and once you got to know her more you find she is very sweet, you find her attractive, she is old-fashioned, and seems to truly adore you and you find out she really likes you too, would you let her get away?...would you let FEAR stand in the way of what could potentially be IT?
Guys, would you really let her get away?
What Guys Said 2
Why do you think it's fear? Why did he leave? Could you be rationalizing that fear was his reason for leaving? I need to know the situation before if I have any chance of giving you an accurate answer.0
i would, well hopefully, I've never had the girl like me back0
What Girls Said 2
Sorry I misunderstood... He looks scared? That is VERY strange. Plan something with a group of friends - invite him... see how it goes. Maybe you just need to break the ice somehow. No clue what he's thinking -- could be a million things. Just reduce the pressure and make it a group thing. If he goes - that's a great sign. Or plan a double date - invite him to a movie if you think you need to make the first move. I just think it's VERY unusual that he's been flirting with you and now he's scared ? Are you SURE he was flirting?0
FEAR is standing in your way? You just said she's attractive, she's sweet - she's old fashioned and she adores you. DUH. Do you need a pile of bricks to fall on your head? It doesn't get any better than that - stop feeling like a commitmentphobe and take the plunge.. HEY, there are NO guarantees in this World that we'll have successful relationships. We work at them and we commit ourselves to making them work. YOU make it work. They just don't "happen"... I say jump in - take the plunge... and ask yourself WHY you would be afraid of a girl who sounds absolutely adorable? What's the worst scenario down the road.. It doesn't work? So what.. ENJOY YOURSELF and have FAITH that it WILL WORK! Hugz.0
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