My close guy friend and I recently confessed that we have feelings for each other. He wants me to come up soon and visit him at college for the weekend. I do not intend on having sex with him or anything, but I need to convince my mom to let my go. I told her that he has a girlfriend, but that won't be enough for her to just let me go. He's a freshman in college and I'm a junior in high school. Any ideas?
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You are a Jr in high school... No Mom would let her daughter go away to a college. Did youjust SAY he had a girlfriend? You lied? Honey.. please don't start that stuff.. If your Mom finds out she can't trust you - you will create a huge problem between you and her. Just becuase you don't INTEND to have sex.. does NOT mean it doesn't happen. .THINGS happen.. You get caught up in passion - and next thing you know.. you got a baby coming you didn't plan for. YOU are asking for trouble by going away to see this guy -- TROUBLE. Please do NOT do it... And PLEASE DO NOT LIE TO YOUR MOM TO GET THERE.. That will blow up in your face. You just see him when he comes home to visit -- NO weekend visits. If you were my daughter.. I would not let you go. Sorry. You're too young.. Be glad your Mom even lets you have him in your life.. When she finds out the two of you have "feelings" for each other - do not be surprised if she is not happy.. She loves you and has to protect you. I would not put temptation in your way - and you be sure this guy respects you and has feelings before you before you EVER decide to sleep with him. And if you do... USE PROTECTION!
NO UNWANTED BABIES or DISEASES.. Hugz.3