I broke up with him 2 months ago, because I just don't feel the same for him anymore. We were together for about two years and it has been a great relationship. But it had to end. Now he is really hurting. He is calling me, crying, and my friend tell me he is really depressed. I feel so guilty for making him feel this way. It's to the point that I feel nauseous, can't eat and I have lost about ten pounds just from this guilty feeling. I don't want to get back together, but I don't know how to make him feel better.
Should I try talking to him about it again of just stay away as I have been doing.
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no, you do not need to discuss it with him anymore. do not blame yourself for how he feels. if you are still friends with him, this might be hard, but yeah, he is hurting because of how long you two were together, and he is really wanting you back. but you don't need to be losing weight over it. yes, it's okay to be sad after a break up, especially with a relationship that long, but you aren't hurt from the break up in general, don't make a big deal out of it. people grow apart, and it does happen. I probably wouldn't see anyone else for a while, just to show him that you aren't jumping back into something with some one else, but he is the one who is hurt. you are hurt because you hurt him, its a natural feeling. just give him some time, he was used to the attachment you two had, now he has to relearn again how to stand on his own two feet with out support. he will be fine. time heals everything, no matter how long it takes. give him space.0