my ex boyfriend has been calling me randomly ever since we broke up 2 months ago. We were together for almost 4 yrs. This past week he called more than usual and I didn't answer.I figured if its important he'll leave a message but he texted me.."just wanted to say hi and hope your doing good". WHAT? Really? Trying that hard to contact me just to say hi? What's the deal here? What is going through his head. FYI we didn't break up on good terms. This guy totally broke my heart.
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He probably wants you back. All the tell tale signs of someone who does. Just arrange to meet up with him face to face and have a talk. Don't do it over the phone! I hate it when girls don't have the guts to tell you things to your face.
Maybe he does just want to see how your doing.
Instead of asking what we all think is going through your ex's head maybe you should ask him.
you were after all together for 4 years and regardless of how messy the break up was I'm sure he still cares for you alot.