he has cheated on all his girlfriend but I'm wondering why not me? is this to good 2 be true? we are engaged but again he has had the chance why hasn't he taken it and cheated?
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I don't blame you for being concerned - but don't be paranoid about it ( have more confidence in yourself) and start imagining things that MAY not be true. If you have no proof - you really can't accuse. So.. most cheaters don't stop. That's true. Keep your eyes/ears open but please give him the benefit of the doubt that he's LOYAL TO YOU until he gives you reason to suspect him.. Watch for clues... Does he do what he says he's going to do? Have you ever caught him in a lie? Is he respectful of you? Does he spend time away from you and you don't know what he's doing or who he's with? Does he close down the computer really fast if you come in the room? Does he keep his cellphone where you can't see it? Will he show it to you if you ask? Just pay attention, Sweetie. It COULD be that he found a girl he REALLY loves... I ohpe that is the case. BUT if you start ot see signs.. ( DO NOT IGNORE THEM).. you ned to ask questions.. If you don't like the answers, you need to reassess your relationship. I was with a cheater 4 yrs. He always had an excuse -- finally I caught him on a dating site pretending to be single ( we were engaged). I knew he'd cheated on every girl he'd eveer been with. I thought I was the SPECIAL one. I wasn't. We finally broke up. My point is.. just please PAY ATTENTION and never invest more in a guy than he has in you. Hugz.0