So what's going on with me and my ex boyfriend are we going to get back together? We broke up and haven't talked for almost a month I had seen him last night and we wound up having sex. It was amazing and it felt so great to be with him again. After we slept next to each other all lovely dopey and kissed each other every second we could. I had to get up for work at 5am and as I got up and said goodbye we laced there together and he grabbed me tight to cuddle. It was so cute to me. I want him back in my life and is this a step toward it? He had told me that he has not done anything with anyone since we had broken up and me the same. I was happy hearing this knowing that he only did it with me. What should I say to him now? The next time we see each other ask him to be my boyfriend again? I think it seems to be moving in a good direction but then again I don't know someone help me in what to do and get him back for good in my life.
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As long as you let him lie to you and sleep with him, he'll hang around. You need to remember why you broke up in the first place, Sweetie. He hasn't changed.. You will be reminded of why in a very short time... We all miss the "nice" things about our exs.. some were great in bed.. but he's still got those problems he had when you broke up. Please don't tell me he cheated on you. . If so - he hasn't stopped. If he is trying to get you back as a girlfriend.. the first thing you SHOULD NOT HAVE DONE is sleep with him.. He needs to EARN his way back... if you sleep with him right off the bat - he hasn't had to work very hard to win you back.. has he? You are giving him all the power right now. PLEASE STOP. Why are you waiting for HIM to make decisions? Don't you have anything to say? It's not ALL UP TO HIM.. He's not answering --- because I suspect... he wanted to sleep with you. Period. Have more respect for yourself - your body... and cut this guy loose. He does not adore you . My instincts tell me he lied to you to get what he wanted.. and maybe was feeling lonely for 10 min and figured you were an easy mark. Apparently - you were .. (SORRY).. Learn that guys will LIE TO GET WHAT THEY WANT... especially to get a girl into bed. If he truly wanted you back - he'd be spending every possible moment with you and calling you non stop. Is this him? Hmmm... Don't kid yourself into thinking he's changed. He hasn't.. AND if you want another ride on this emotional roller coaster knowing you will get hurt... AGAIN.. then by all means - get back on. Love yourself first. Make YOU happy.. Doesn't sound like he cares all that much about you but is only interested in what makes HIM happy... Find a guy who will adore you , one who will pursue YOU... treat you like a Queen. This guy? Loser. He will disappear again.. sooooo.. KNOW this will happen... and when it does... you cannot say OH MY.
I had NO idea... YES YOU DO... Kick him to the curb where he belongs. Hugz.0