OK so I have a boyfriend who apparently really loves...this is scary because he's my first boyfriend and I don't seem to like that much anymore.
Plus I'm a very shy and scared of ending stuff myself
so it think the best way is if he breaks up with me, but how do I make him do it?
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Listen, I know that you think that the best thing right now is to just end it, move on but please trust me that 9/10 times you will regret this decision. He LOVES you! What more is there to that. I was in your position months ago where I didn't think I could do the relationship because I'd never been in one, I was scared to get hurt, didn't want to get too invested and my GOD if I'd ducked out then I would never have got to know how amazing it feels to be completely and utterly in love with someone and have someone love you back. I wouldn't give that feeling up for anything. If you can think of a genuine reason why you dislike him- he's mean, he neglects you, he forgets things then that's fine but just because he's your first boyfriend and you don't like it that much anymore isn't the best reason.
Either, try to work it out with the person who loves you or break up with him yourself- manipulating him into breaking up with you first will hurt him and you and when you're not together anymore you may well regret giving him up because you were scared. There are things in this life you SHOULD be scared of (not terrified mind you- if you're that scared of being with him fair enough) but most of the time it's good, excited scared and helps you grow and develop as a person.2