Yea I have lots of times , she just says it's who she is if you don't like it then move on
When I do go to leave she chases me back it's kind of a cat mouse game and I can't stand it
I read both comments, yeah I'd move on. Sounds like she does just the least she has to, to keep you around. Unless you're about to go, then she chases, long enough to drag you back. That isn't love at all. Love yourself enough to move on.
I have kids so main reason I stay , love my kids with all my heart I think once they get older I will make my move
No. Never stay in an unhappy situation cause kids. Kids would much rather visit 2 parents at each home, an have peace, than to feel tension in the home with both parents together. Life is short, to stay in a unhappy situation. Give her one more chance if you want, letting her know this is it... or truly move on. You don't have to be in the same house, to love an help your kids... your relationship with her is separate from yours with them. I advise you to try once more... than end the relationship. It won't help your kids being around 2 people who aren't getting along... they might even recent you for it in the end... instead of you moving on, an them having peace in the home. I could not stay an be unhappy with someone, I don't care if we have 50 kids.
Thank you you're right
You'd not tell your grown kids someday to stay in an unhappy relationship, so don't expect yourself to either. Kids will be loved an helped no matter what... see your relationship as separate from them. You're welcome.
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