Same as what i must have commented, if i didn't saw your comment first...
@dhananjayG glad to know people share my opinion on that :)
But what if relationship is going downhill since a long time. Is emotional cheating is still cheating according to you?
@Asker if a relationships is going downhill and you resort to connecting to someone else instead, you should break up with the person you are with before getting with someone else. Always breakup when you think you are out of love. Its better to leave than cheat.
@kaajal what if you didn't intend to "fall" for the other person and it just happened. Is it still cheating? There's no physical intimacy
You usually dont intend to fall for them. But the moment you realise you are, you should leave one of them. In the initial phases of realisation, its probably not really cheating, but if you continue with it, then it would be.
You mean the moment you realize that you are falling for them or the moment you realize the you've already fallen for them?
But id also like to tell you that, if you have a girlfriend and you are sharing your feelings with someone else instead of her, that isn't too right. That is the moment you should know, something isn't okay. Your s/o should also be your bestfriend.
The moment you realize you are falling for them. The moment youve fallen for them, it means youve taken it too far, then it is cheating.
I'm glad we think similar :) cheating is the worst thing one person can do to his/her partner
Cheating in any form is really terrible especially when you are the victim of it. by the way thank you for the mho.☺
I agree! How do I message you? It says I don't have enough XP?
Very true.. How do I message you? It says I don't have enough XP?
I would have messaged you, but i dont know your name :p
I kinda wanted to be anonymous here but OK. I'm Anurag :) Ping me!
Lol. Okay but i need your profile. Follow me so i may know that.
Following you was the first thing I did after joining G@G 😜
:p :p i tried to guess your profile, now lets see.
But didn't you allow yourself to get so close to that person so that you fell in love with them? Also, love (unlike lust) is a strong feeling and doesn't happen in a day. So, you knowingly allowed yourself to fall in love with the other person.
But people fall in love with their friends and there's no law that says you can't be friends with the sex you're attracted to. I just don't think you can help falling in love with someone
That's true one can fall in love with a friend. The moment you "start falling in love", you should at least be honest with your SO. Why to wait till the time you are completely in love with your friend? Isn't that wrong? What do you think?
Ya but I think sometimes people don't realize they're falling in love until they are in love. Whenever I have a crush on someone I do tell my boyfriend though.
Exactly! Love starts with a crush. And people are always aware that they are getting closer to the other person emotionally. There's nothing wrong in that. It's wrong when you allow yourself to get so much close that you fall for that person while your SO is unaware of this whole thing going between you and your friend. That's why the name "Emotional Cheating"
I guess I dunno. Regardless I think physical cheating is worse
So a one night drunken sex is worse than months and years of lying and hiding your feelings about your friend from your SO?
Ya to me it is
Oh alright.. At least you're honest about it and that's a good thing :)
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Emotional cheating hurt a lot more because even if I wanted to forgive me it would be pointless since he love someone else.