I confronted my boyfriend about messages on his phone and finally about a week later he finally came clean and told me he was answering personal ads online. He claims he always stopped before meeting up with any female. And he answered the ad "with no intention to follow through." He also couldn't give me a reason why he was doing it either. Today is our 3 year anniversary. I'm not to sure if I should believe him or run as fast as I can.. HELP?
Should I stay or should I go?
What Guys Said 15
You could think you're in love... But he certainly isn't.
I would drift away from him. If he comes after you genuinely, repetitively, talk about it first, set the record straight, and if he agrees, give him a chance.
If he doesn't, it's obvious isn't it.1
I'd go my own way, personally. He'd have violated my trust in him, not just cheated (as far as I'm concerned). Moreover, it would likely have hurt my ability to trust future partners. I'd feel obliged to warn them at the beginning of relationship. Depending on the integrity of your trust, he might have handed you a load of emotional baggage that you now have the task of fighting off. Not good. Barely forgivable -- but that's my take, based on your description.0
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Well if you stay there will be trouble,
and if you go there will be double. But darling you have to let him knoow,
shoud you stay or shoud you go 🎵🎶0
Some times guys so stupid shit. Don't throw everything out over few ads a dude thought to do something. He didn't cheat. He wanted. The devil was in his mind. But his heart is clean and he stopped him self. That's credit on my view.0
So you got to let me know, should I stay or should I go!0
Ask him if he's loooking for some type of fantastie and if you have no intrest in it at all i would say leave0
It could be he was seeking the thrill of possiblity. Either way it is a Red flag. It should be discussed and if you don't feel it can be overcome, part ways.0
Run girl RUN0
stay. U liked him the last 3 years when he cheated on u, so no reason to change that now.0
That sounds fishy to me.0
I think you should leave him. I'm not sure what you mean by personal ads to be honest. But if you don't trust him anymore which nobody would then it's going to end badly. Also 3 years without saying I love you? I've never heard of a couple being in a relationship for that long and not saying I love you.0
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