I did hurt him I suffer from anxiety and a panic attack turned into a misunderstood message. I didn’t know it was anxiety until he left. The message hurt him but when I came out and calmed down I read it and I really didn’t mean anything that I had said I messed up. He didn’t give me a chance he texted me told me to leave my ring and keys and go and that was it I’ve not seen nor spoke to him since it’s like he died and blocked me in everything
Oh, I'm sorry. Yeah, I would send him a letter, it will give you a chance to explain.
What do I even put in it
Be honest. Explain what happened, give a sincere apology. Explain that you know you may never gain back his trust, but don't want to leave things on such bad terms.
Well I told his mom that and she said we already did because a few days after I told him what he wanted to hear in a text after that he cut all communication
I never had the chance to really talk to him about it or anything
Huh. I don't know, I'd still go with the letter. If nothing else, you can say you tried.
It’s so hard we broke up once before and it was the same way so I’m like will he come back around this time again or no
I've been in the same position. I felt much better in a new relationship where we weren't constantly breaking up, getting back together etc. cuz the stress was killing me. that's just my personal experience.
It’s like my heart says don’t give up but my mind says this is not a healthy relationship focus on yourself
I had the exact same feelings, but once I started dating someone else I felt sooo much better. I had been having trouble eating as sleeping and my mom even had to take me to the doctor, but once I found a new guy to spend time with I was to focused on being with him to think about the past after a while. hope you feel much better soon, whatever you decide
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He said if he sees me cry he will break down and want to fix it and we’ll be back to we’re we are now.
What's wrong with crying?
I don't know I think if he saw me or spoke he would feel bad honestly
Is feeling bad a bad thing?
For him yes. He would rather disappear and hide it all then fix anything
Fixing things looks a better option to me.
This is the second time the exact same way and I just don’t know what to do
Confronting the conflict is always the best answer. That's why you feel that way, because your biology knows it.
We never did he simply just disappeared
Do you see him in real life?
No I haven’t seen him in person since it happened
Well the day we broke up he got up to go to work and that was the last rime
How would you feel if one day your mother told you that she no longer wanted you as her daughter, and then disappeared? Would you consider that appropriate?
No not at all
Then what's the difference with couple relationships?
He left because I sent a message that upset him. I was having a panic attack and messed up after he left I was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder and have fixed it. Now I realize my mistake but it’s not enough he cut me out completely his mom knows and told him but he told her we said our piece and he’s just done it hurts so bad and also makes me mad
What would you do if you were in his situation?