So basically my boyfriend always points out how dumb I am. I currently go to college and am doing really well it’s almost like his jealous as his not the one “ahead” anymore I’d never wish In my life that my relationship would seem like a competition I want him to do well too but it’s like he try’s to put me down for doing well. He says that they are giving me “false hope” and that I’m not going to do well and I never will. He constantly goes on about how well his doing but as soon as I talk about myself he gets defensive and tells me there lying to me. I always apologise because he makes me feel like I triggered him to say it or sometimes I apologise because I don’t want to argue. I’ve asked him to stop calling me dumb but he hasn't stopped. What should i do?