It makes me so much angrier that he tried to blame me for his cheating. He told me i made him miserable because i cared about what he did on social media. I just didn’t appreciate him. Doing certain things; they made me feel insecure and uncomfortable and he never listened to me. And then he went and did a ton of bad things behind my back. I am so angry and I’m getting mad again. I want to just punch him! :/
I am very sorry. Betrayal is so very painful. It's one of the most painful experiences to face. The pain is still raw, so it's natural to be on a roller-coaster of emotions. He manipulated you by trying to lay the blame on you. He tried to justify his infidelity by trying to make out you were the cause. That in itself is a reflection of his true character. He is weak person. Try to focus on the person he is , not the person you thought he was.
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I already sent him many mean messages. I said something so mean, he told me “you are toxic and hateful. I tried to be cool, but i don’t need you in my life (we were broken up anyways?)” He then blocked me. But then, he unblocked me and a few days later texted me “hello”. It makes such little sense to me. I am refraining from texting him and I’ve had him blocked for the past 2 days. I want to say such mean stuff to him. But, i also want him to experience the loss of me. But, i don’t believe he will ever change who he is.
Leave him alone and be better than him... showing no interest in him or his life will make him leave you alone as well...You don't need to be mean anymore...You can't put out fire with fire...Forget about him and focus on something new and joyful
How does me being angry and sending him angry texts feed his ego?
He will notice that you are still attached to him, he will feel like you can't live without him. If I were you just block him out of everything and move on. I kno it's toughest thing to do but it also is there right thing to do. It'll help you in long run
Hmm. Yes. I blocked him last night and i haven’t sent a message since then. :/ it is hard not to send messages. Sometimes i open up the message log and type something out. Then... i delete it :/
Lol, it's fresh that's why it's tough. Time heals everything but in meantime don't send him anything. He choose to cheat so let him be, his choice. Talk to someone, your best friend or family members
I just hate how he made me feel i am to blame because i was insecure and jealous (not always my fault though!) it makes me feel so badly, and like he will treat the next girl better and not cheat on her :/
It is NOT your fault! You are you, And you shouldn't have to change that! But don't feel alone on that subject, I blame myself for ANYTHING that goes wrong, even when it doesn't have anything to do with me!
It’s just, i didn’t like when he’d like photos of random girls, or add random girls, or like sexy photos his female friends would post. and he would comment on some of his old female friends photos (from childhood), he would comment heart eyes and stuff like that. Or he would like sexy photos of video game streaming girls, etc. i just did not like it, and i felt disrespected. Maybe it was my fault for paying attention to what he was doing, but. I did ask him to stop multiple times. He never did. I try not to blame myself. But, i did become increasingly insecure and monitoring of what he did. But, i don’t feel that is 100% my fault, because he kept pushing my boundaries. And it sucks to blame ourselves :/ i feel you girl
After reading that, I PROMISE it's his fault. He has polluted his mind, and has VERY SLIM chances of EVER pleasing a girl in the future.
I feel like many girls wouldn’t like a guy doing that. I would tell my friends about it, and they would get upset for me. Also, my ex never really liked my photos/posted photos of me, or gave me compliments/comment on my photos. And when i found out he was cheating, he was giving girls all the attention online that i wanted and that hurts the most. His excuse was “they weren’t asking me to give them attention”. I feel like he is an idiot. Of course they wouldn’t ask him for attention, he wasn’t their boyfriend and he was giving it to them!! He is 25 and acts like a 12 year old boy. Seriously !! He told me “i didn’t care what you did online. Relationships are about what we do in front of each other”. That is mind boggling. I’m so mad he said that!!
I'm actually happy he isn't around you anymore. You deserve better than him.
I don’t lack logic? My feelings are hurt. What, do you typically cheat on people, is that why you lack empathy?
See what i mean? Jumping to conclusions. I was cheated on and i hurt her way more by not caring at all and her seeing my tinder account when i explained to her when i found out. You wanting revenge shows you lack common sense. You letting yourself be this hurt shows you lack logic. Too fucking bad if you're hurt. GET OVER IT!You dont need people empathizing over your "tragic" situation. You dont need sympathy. You need a big kick in the ass and move the hell on. And you especially dont take revenge or hold negative thoughts. It shows how weak you are too.
The way you talk you sound like you know this pink anon inside out. Different treatments for different people. Empathy isn’t a bad thing at all, just because you lack it doesn’t make it bad.
Lol. Nah, people who lack empathy are people who cheat and hurt others. I don’t think having emotions and strong ones is weak. I think people who refuse to show them and feeling them are the weak ones.
Call me weak all you want, at least i have a good heart and don’t intend to hurt people. Unlike others...
Trying for revenge is worse and how dare you say i lack empathy when you're the one trying to get back at him. You lack it if anything. you're painting yourself as the victim when really you're just pathetic. Like i said get over it. Stop looking for sympathy.
@fueledbythc you just sound like you’re attacking her, which to me is a negative thought, which you just described as weak.
@Meninist im just saying it how it is. Reality is that she probably fucked up the relationship herself which drove the guy to cheat. Cheating is usually 2 sided. Of course she didn't say the whole story because it will lose her ability to gain as much sympathy as she wants.Looking at it from a neutral point of view, who the fuck is she to deem she has the right to make someone else miserable just because someone else made her mad. Always better to be the bigger person and walk away in a situation like this.
Actually no, i didn’t fuck up the relationship. You were cheated on so you’re bitter towards women. If my ex was that unhappy, he could have left and not cheated. Cheating is selfish, and it it never the other person’s fault. You can try and attack me all you want. But you are ruled by emotion just as much as everyone else lol. Silly boy.
And you didn’t walk away lol. You retaliated. You can’t drive a person to cheat. I guess by that logic, you drove your girlfriend to cheat. Or were you perfect and faults only apply to everyone else? You’re a hypocrite lol.
@meninist, i agree. This man is a victim blamer. Clearly.
You're right i am the reason she cheated. I know the reasons and whatever it is what it is. Jumping to conclusions and calling me the silly boy lol. You obviously dont understand that you have some blame into him cheating. You couldnt make him happy or your attitude. I don't know but its something that doesn't need to be said.
Huh? He ended it. Saying “i don’t deserve you”.
It's true u are wasting 5ine thinking on a situation that u are the only person that cares about it he don't no more only you
So what do i do?
I dunno try let it go. If you really wanna go at it, get with another guy he doesn't like, but if he is over you he isn't going to care anyway.
No idea if he is over me.