No, he never apologized for the mean things he did. Instead he made me feel like everything that happened was my fault. Then we stopped talking for a long time and now he's sending a friend request.
He's got a flawed belief system that is similar to someone who beats his wife and blames her for his anger. He needs to learn it's fine to express his anger in a communicative manner that gets his point across without harming anyone. This is a life lesson some people never learn. I see people all the time falling down this rabbit hole. Many end up in prison for murder and other violent acts. I'd be careful if you choose to have him in your life.
It's strange because he used to be so nice, but I should probably just stay away unless I get a sincere apology.
I'm sure he's nice when he wants something from you. That's not related to how he reacts to things he doesn't like. I bet if you told him he had a flaw. He would lash out at you. These archetypes of people are predictable for me, I've met too many types of people and notice a pattern. I haven't studied psychology but after a psychologist accessed me in prison. They wrote on my profile I was highly intelligence and my answers were to be analysed for a longer period than other inmates.
Regardless of whether he and I talk again or not I hope he doesn't end up the way you described. I hope he doesn't hurt anyone or himself. That would be so terribly sad. :(
What we wish for others reveals something about ourselves. It's what you want for yourself. You want to find someone who loves you the way you love yourself. If you really want to help him, watch how he helps others.
Yes, I suppose that's true. I really do want to find someone nice (and also a little wild) who loves me and who I love too. That's interesting about your history. I hope things are going much better for you now.
That's up to me, I decide if I want things to be better for myself or not. Depends if I want to, or maybe I'll just stay the troubled kid so my mom can use me as a platform to excuse her own flaws. Maybe I'll just be this way so my brother can keep being the first born and successful drug lord that nobody knows. I don't know, maybe I'll be dead tomorrow cuz I'm hurting the financial income of certain corrupt individuals like cops or politicians.
I dont know what to say, I hope things get better.
And yes if it so happens I will probably have no choice but to watch how he treats others in ways he won't treat me. Perhaps they'll both be happy. And hopefully one day we can all be happy again
How do you know his relationship with another girl is better than the one he had with you? What he has with her can't be compared with yours because neither of you girls see the whole picture. Do you think just because he treats her well right now, that means she's better than you? He is only treating her well because she most likely has not seen the bad side of him yet.Stop putting yourself down. I feel like too many girls measure their worth on how guys treat them.Being a guy, I'll tell you the truth. It will be rare for a guy who really cares about a girl to approach her and have the confidence in himself that he is everything she wants.Most guys who do approach girls only do so for selfish reasons.Most guys who don't approach girls but like them would work to make her happy, but they don't think they are good enough.If love was so easy, it wouldn't be so valuable when it happens.
That's true, thanks for all of your insights.
Yeah I question whether it's a good idea or not
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Amen to that