Why is it so hard to get over an asshole ex?

I had a long distance boyfriend who used to be a sweetheart and slowly started showing his true colors to me as time passed; yelling, cursing, offending my family, putting friends before me, etc... It was a very hurtful and emotionally abusive relationship. It's been 3 days since I broke up with him but I'm still talking to him to get answers. He doesn't want to be with me even if I beg him but he says I deserve better. I want to know why he wouldn't wanna hold on to me. Why doesn't he become the man he thinks I deserve? And why is it so damn hard to get over him? Honestly I think I only miss the beautiful moments we had, but every time he disrespected me was a stab to my heart...
Why is it so hard to get over an asshole ex?
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