I met this guy about a yr. ago and ever since then we have been having sex. It just keeps getting better. Our relationship talks have evolved over time. At first we didn't want one. But then I wanted one, he didn't. A couple months ago he seem to want one... Point is we constantly argue but can get along pretty dam well. Especially sexually. He hasn't had a girlfriend this whole time , I had a boyfriend but broke up with him for cheating on him with this guy. Sometimes I think I like him more than he likes me. According to him , he hasn't asked the big question because he is going through economic instability. He says how is he going to afford a girlfriend if he can't even afford himself. He also wants to live on his own, hasn't found a place. He is 20. I'm 18. Another point he makes is I deserve better than what he can give me. is he just making excuses or will this ever go any further?
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All of his excuses are basically "it's not you, it's me". They're designed to make you feel better about him not wanting a relationship with you. All he wants is sex. Will that change in the future? Anything is possible. But if he really wanted a relationship right now he would be asking you for one.0