Thanks. Hope everything will get better for you
I had a temporary restraining order but to get a real one I'd have to take him to court
I also blocked him and changed my number
Oh... it's that bad. I'm sorry. I've been there. Never had to go quite that far, but very close. She totally stalked me. I got lucky though because I became a long haul truck driver while she was doing this, so I was able to "escape" and eventually, she stopped, but yeah, it's hard.
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Hmm okay so being followed, prank called and catfished, aren't things that would put me in a depression or prevent me from feeling free to live my life okay then.
You didn't mention all that. You sound like i should've known that just from reading the word "obsessed"! There's nothing wrong with obsession itself. So not sure why the obsession is so important to you to mention, and all the stalking and catfishing is not?on the other hand: you shouldn't fall into a depression for all that. people should be strong, not weak. So maybe you should do something? What did the lawyer and/or the police say b. t. w?
I’m conflicted about all of it because I care about him but his behavior scares me sometimes. He has done those things but he might not be anymore. So I think that sometimes I come to the wrong conclusion because I think it’s still happening but I might just have pstd. I had a temporary order on him but I didn’t want to take him to court. I want to be at peace and I want him at peace also
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Yeah, what he said. and maybe a CCW
You can also accuse him of rape and send him to prison.
@NerdInDenial restraining order 👍 accusation of rape 👎@ Asker - you didn't specify why, so I say harassment order should suffice. Unless it was something crazy like your married, slept with this guy and now can't get rid of him quietly without ruining your life, if that's the case you're SOL!
@AwesomeCookie accusation of rape can put that guy in jail
He actually did assault me but that was long ago and the circumstances will probably make me look worse than him ☹️
It doesn’t matter; you can destroy him. Use it as a tactic not as a threAt but a warning. It would be a shame if he was known as a rapist
@NerdInDenial Wow! Lol@ Asker stalking and harassment is a serious crime. & super creepy!!! If you're concerned that the law won't protect you, then you need to take precautions for your own safety. Traveling in daylight, knowing your route, going places with trusted friends, etc. Making a report or routine stop, check points or informing the PD prior to going placing will be helpful to. Sometimes the PD knowing your vehicle and following you closely is enough to deter creepers.
Oooh that's true
Don't post your location on FB or anything, that's like asking to be stalked. Personally message people your location and whereabouts if you're concerned about your safety.
Yes I never post it. Or when I travel I post my pics a month or two later
👍 good call
He's an ex that is completely obsessed and catfishes me all of the time. He also follows me but it's mostly when I'm driving somewhere so I can't record it. It's just awful I hate it and I wish he'd go away 😞
well, at lest he's given you all the right reasons-some really don't know the difference
It's just sad and exhausting though 😢
Geez have you tried buying a new car or crashing yours into his do something drastic by the way is catfishing when yoy pretend to be smevodh else?
He does he follows my dating profile and sometimes creates profiles of guys who never wants to meet but want to talk all of the time I can tell it's him from what they say
No I can't crash my car I actually like it
That does sound a bit creepy and probable. Have you rhought about meering him in a public space and asking him in person ro take a hike. Then from on the shadows your crew steps out and helps this guy walk ro his car
Good idea I wish I knew people that would do that for me... maybe my mijos would hmmm they're the only ones who know