Guys: Why Do You Back Off?

Each time the guy I'm dating and I have a great weekend or a couple of consecutive days together, he tends to then go into a complete hibernation. Just when I think we're about to start moving into "swing by tonight?" I get nothing for a couple days with a follow up phone call..."work stuff, need some time to think some things through in my head" OK, go ahead...I make plans with the girls, and then boom, my phone will blow up Friday AND/or Saturday night, "where you at?" "who are you with?" "what are you doing?" "did you eat yet?" "ok, what about tomorrow?"

If you're backing me off, then back me off?!?!?!?!

Does he get scared once he's accomplished his task?

Now while I don't want a man who needs constant attention, I do like to plan SOMETHING this weekend.

I'm not comfortable with sitting around waiting to see if he's going to want to do something and then, should I really make myself that available to him? But half of me wants to because even if I'm out with the the back of my mind, knowing I could've been out with HIM is killing

Don't know if this is really a question but I'm open to any advice...ladies too! And thanks in advance, all of my wonderful GAG peeps! :D
Guys: Why Do You Back Off?
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