Yes it is
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While it's a nice idea, in the real world it's really hard to pull off. Can be done , I've seen it happen, but it's so rare that it works, because usually , one of you still has feelings in the present. Now, pushing through the emotional static and making it work isn't always a luxury but is a necessity when you got kids involved. Good luck with that.