like I said, a good person can make a mistake, but that mistake will IN PART define them and make them less of a good person. My general advice to any person who doesn't wanna make a 'mistake' is don't drink spirits if you don't wanna be possessed, you might find yourself doing something that does not reflect who you are, or WHO YOU WERE I should say, as our actions come to define us
Did your boyfriend forgive you?
You did the best by telling your boyfriend. I wish you two are still together.
We actually broke up. But we are still talking. He said once I gain his trust again, we can date.
Wish you the best☺
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I hope you can fix your relstionship. Past is the past. I am sure you are kind-hearted girl.
Don't you think most people who cheated have your idea but the different situations lead them to do that?
Don't get me wrong I do not want accept cheating but I want to imagine myself on thier conditions.
No cheaters are just shitty people. Cheating isn’t something that just happens, it happens because they made that choice and have no morals
I had your ideas but after reading some surveys in US and finding out 50 percent of people have cheated on their partners at least once. I cannot believe all of them are shitty people.
Then what are they?
I suppose some people like you and me who have made a mistake in their life.
Okay I’m done with this conversation. I don’t agree
Ok. However, thanks for sharing your opinion.
you can't believe that all of them are shitty people? Why not? What makes you think they aren't? I would argue that the vast majority of people are shitty people, doesn't mean they can never be good, but as they are, they are shitty.
Sorry, but, I cannot see other people that way.
probably says something about yourself. Once you give other people responsibility for their actions, you need to take responsibility in your own life too...
so you would never ever cheat and never have cheated? No matter what the situation, you would NEVER EVER cheat?
Yes, I will do my best to be faithfull and I have never cheated.
but will your best be enough depending on the situation? Like you said, depending on the circumstances, good people might cheat, no?
Yes, sometimes.Good people make mistakes.
every 'mistake' you make becomes part of what defines you. If I were a girl and I quizzed you as I just did, I wouldn't wanna commit to you, after all, you might make a mistake. I will never make a 'mistake' in that department because I don't believe that qualifies as a mistake. If you get piss wasted with the opposite gender after midnight and something happens, it's your own damn fault and you are a shitty person for cheating.