This weekend there is a huge party which has been planned for months. These are all mutual friends of my ex and I (we broke up 5 months ago and he was dating a new girl 2 months after). They will be there together. I've never met her and haven't had a conversation with him since we broke up. The times I have bumped into him since he has pretended I don't exist or said a very sarcastic "hello". He's been pretty jerky since he dumped me, although I was hoping we could be peaceful for the sake of mutual friends (and the fact that our breakup wasn't based on cheating or any other real drama).
While I still hurt a lot over the whole thing this isn't someone I want to be with. The last few months of pain have been more about his treatment of me post breakup than the dumping itself.
Should I go to this party? I want to socialize like normal with our friends but I know it will be uncomfortable. Also, I don't want his girlfriend to feel uncomfortable either-this is about him and his attitude, and I wonder if I should subject myself to it. I absolutely HATE ignoring people - I think it's so stupid, but I know that's what I will be forced to do to him and I don't like that either.
I really appreciate input!
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Yes go be yourself, don't worry about them move on ...0