Sounds like you both find the perfect plan for your son sake. We are having a daughter my girlfriend doesn't want any kids even talked about adoption which I refused. She still wants to date but doesn't want a kid I'll raise her myself if need be
Sounds a lot like me... I pushed hard for adoption too. But he refused, and it all worked out. Definitely has been a struggle at times. She might come around yet.
We will see I refuse so much because of reading all the horror story about adoption I couldn't do it... and adopt parents don't have to honor the open adoption Contact. So 100% not do it heard a story where a girls family member adopt her son he cried everyday for his mom so he got beaten everytime he cried for his mom. Few weeks later the mom was no longer allowed to see her kid even through they had a write agreement. Anyway sounds like a bad idea but we will see maybe she will come around
That's the plan and maybe we will get married. Family was telling us now we most get married right away
Why would we do that?
We are still dating not sure about getting married yet. She doesn't even want kids
I’m just answering the question.
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