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I don't see a girlfriend being a big issue unless you were with them for a very long time and they were a big part of your life and they broke it off with you to be with someone else. Then it could be very hard if you still love that person. If it was someone you were married to for a lot of years and you had kids with them and they left you for someone else I think it would be very hard knowing that person isn't in your life anymore. What would make it real hard if they still tried being your friend and invited you to their wedding? Would you go? Me personally I couldn't do it that's why it's best to just let exes go and try to be happy for them and move on with your life
It does bother me for a while, but I try to brush it off and get on with my life. I think it is a natural reaction. And as long as I don't try to interfere or sabotage their new relationship, I don't believe I am doing anything wrong.
I am friends with all of my exes, so we have very special places in each other's hearts. That being said, I do feel a bit sad. I also feel very happy for them if they find a wonderful person! We all have pacts to be there for each other no matter what, and so we don't worry about the other person replacing us so much as taking away some time from us. Not a big deal.
No because you can’t truly tell if a person is happy and happiness is relative. I learned this when a married ex aproached wine with the proposal of having an affair 😐... which made me realize he wasn’t happy with his wife and that he was a shit head. All relationships have pluses and cons and I don’t really care as long as they aren’t my problem anymore
I stop following their life after a break up, but if I randomly saw that they have moved on, it wouldn't bother me. I'm not the type to cling on to past relationships. There's usually a very good reason for the break up, so if they had found someone who meets their needs better, I don't see it affecting my life in any way.
I would be sad to know that I'm the past for him, but part of me would be happy to see him enjoying life and be happy.I still prefer not to stay in touch, I don't want to know when he's over me.
It used to bother me a lot, I didn't want to be labeled as the "loser ex-boyfriend". I've gotten better at getting over stuff (because as you get older you give less of a shit), but I'd be lying if I said it doesn't bother me at all now. I'm sure in time, I'll learn not to care at all about anything lol
I AM very happy for her, even though it didn't work out between the two of us, I'm glad for the times and memories she's given me, good and bad, they've been valuable lessons in life. Even though I don't love her anymore, I value her part in my life, she's made me who I am. Our relationship was a nice chapter of my life, and I'm very glad that she's found someone that'll hopefully give her the joy and love that she deserves.
My ex wife had her boyfriend lined while I was deployed and then the day she left the base we were at, literally the next day she was posting pictures of him and her. Yep that shit hurt. But times marches on.
No. He wouldn’t leave me alone after I broke yo with him. I’m glad he has a new girlfriend and finally left me alone.
If you truly love him or her you want that person to be happy wether it's you or somebody else it does not bother you. At least one person is happy.
Took words right out of my mouth
If I broke up with no. They deserve to be happy. But if they broke up with me then I still hurts a little.
I have duality. I'd be so happy for them. At least somebody's happy.I'd be ticked and miffed, and bummed. F them. I hope it all goes to hell. Why should they be happy when I'm not? Duality.
My break up is still pertty recent but it was a good breakup and I really wish him the best. If he is enjoying his life, I know our break up was definitely the best decision we took.
One of my ex got married and I could not be more happy for them - really. She and her then-bf were on LDR and I'm glad they worked out fine.
If I still love him, then yes it bothers me, it's not like I will do anything to stop him bring happy, but it would sadden me. If I don't love him anymore, it wouldn't bother me.
Nah. I literally hooked my ex with someone else so he can stop being alone.
With my first ex yes. Because the breakup was due to extenuating circumstances so seeing them be happy with someone else while im over here being miserable... yeah it fucking stings
I feel happy, GOOD now they won't bother me at all.
Yes it does there was a study done that showed that the chemical reaction you have from a breakup has the same impact as a person suffering from cocaine withdrawls
I don’t give a fuck what an ex does as long as they leave me alone
I would get mad if she ended up the relationship. If I was the one that broke up with her I have no reason to be mad at her because of this.
Not at all. Talked to mine recently and i was super happy to hear about him and his girlfriend are doing we even hang oug sometimes. Just cause someone is my ex doesn't mean i dont like them
A little especially if it right away cause to me it looks like there been something going on.
It might make me ponder about the what if scenario for a bit but ultimately I'd be happy
NO, thank goodness, good riddance, count my blessings, kiss the earth. I am just so fortunate she screwed up someone else's life.
no it warms my heart to see them happy, I've to say loving someone doesn't mean wanting them for yourself
No. My past relationship was a joke due to him cheating on me and honestly I wish him the best. I am happy so why should I care about him? We are both doing our own thing. I could care less honestly.
No because there’s a reason they are my exe and I know they still have the same flaws they had when they were with me and their relationship will probably have the same issues too
Gods, no. I never quit wanting them to be happy, just because they weren't happy with me...
I'd be glad to see she's up to making somebody else's life miserable too. LolBut seriously, No. I'd be happier if she was happy.
Nah I'd hope to god she stays happy and forgets all about me. I don't dislike her but I don't do that on/off again bullshit. Like, if we end it its because its over, not because I wanna take a break and start again later.
No it wouldn't bother me I don't hate them just because the relationship didn't work out
No it wouldn't for me at least, knowing that I didn't ruin their lives or experience with relationships would make me happy.
It is one less potential problem to boomerang back.
Wtf... Why would i even bother to take note of my ex🤣😊🤣
It honestly makes me happy for them. I just want people to be happy, no matter who they are.
Honestly, if you keep yourself attached it will. I'll keep honest brutally, I don't really care what my ex, happy good for her, sad ahh well good luck. I'm just gonna focus on my life. That's it
It only bothers me when I'm not happy. When I'm happy I wish them the best.
I'm glad. Means they are out of my hair. I also generally like people to be better off for having met me.
Personally speaking, yes. I still have feelings for my ex so if I saw them happy with someone else, of course I’ll feel... replaced by something better. But, I would hope that they’re happy.
Yep.Especially because my life is soo shit rn.
No they just need not try again with me.
Specially when they're married. We don't need to be friends.
Nope. Either I don't care or I am happy for her.
It shouldn't... cause if it does, you seem to still stuck on
Wouldn't bother me... however I do get a kick out of seeing them go down hill
Why does that bother you?
Not at all. I’d want them to be happy!
None of my exes are happy, as it should be.
Why would it?
It bothers a little
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