for me I have to be in the mindset that I WANT to get over him. that's the biggest hurdle.
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In a way, I kind of fade them away from my life.
Like, I won't start conversations with him anymore. That way, he won't be on my mind all the time. Since the more you think about someone, the more that feeling for them gets engraved in your heart. I stop talking about him to my friends. It's proven that the more you talk about someone, the more you fall for them. And, I start talking to new people just for distraction.
That's the way I do it but not even on purpose. I've just notice that when I'm trying to get over a guy, these things just happen subconsciously.1