I have recently split up with my on/off boyfriend of 4 years.. We split because of arguments.. His decision, its been a month since we split..
Because I love him, I have been the fool and texted and rang in contently.. I know I shouldn't but its hard when the one person you love you feel like your losing them
At first he wasn't answering my calls and ignoring me. He would ignore me when I see him. But I finally pulled myself together and gave him a week. He then started to reply to my messages. They where hurtful, he said stuff like Move on and I don't love you no more and leave me alone.
The thing is when have previously been through a break up he acts like he doesn't care. I have questioned him on why he does this and he said because he doesn't like to show emotion and anger is he's way of showing he's upset.
So when he says he doesn't love me, I start to think maybe he's just angry. As I have been through this with him before.. He's said a lot of stuff he hasn't meant to me before. And I didn't think he could fall out of love in a month..
He was telling me he loved and would be lost if we split a few days before we did.
Atm when I bump into him he ignores me
I think deep down he still loves me, why does he have to act cold and ignore me when we split? And if I give him time do people think he'll talk to me when he's ready?
I am slight scared to give him time in case he doesn't miss me and actually wants to move on. I know there's nothing I can do to prevent this happening but just don't wanna think about it.
He thinks being single is more easier then a relationship. So that's why I think he always splits up cause he can't take the arguments. He says he can do what he wants and doesn't have to think about an other half.
can anyone help me suss my ex out. Thanks :D x
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IM IN THE SAME SITUATION... BELIEVE ME I KNOW IT HURTS BUT YOU NEED TO BE STRONG... YOU NEED TO DO THE SAME THING I AM WHICH IS IGNORING HIM FOR A WHOLE MONTH SO HE CAN REALLY HAVE TIME TO MISS YOU... HE WILL CALL BACK I GUARRANTEE YOU... YOU JUST HAVE TO KEEP STRONG...I KNOW THAT YOU ARE SCARED OF HIM MOVING ON (BECAUSE I AM) BUT YOU NEED TO REALIZE THAT HE ALREADY IS...BY ACTING THE WAY HE IS AND SAYING THE THINGS HE IS SAYING... HE LIKES BEING SINGLE... GIVE HIM THAT FREEDOM HE WANTS... DONT BE SELFISH! IF YOU LOVE HIM AND YOU SEE HE IS HAPPY THAT WAY THEN LET HIM BE... I KNOW ITS NOT WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR BUT ITS THE UGLY TRUTH... IF HE CALLS YOU AGAIN AFTER THAT ENTIRE MONTH HAS PASSED AND YOU WANT TO ANSWER THEN GO A HEAD... BY THE END OF THAT MONTH BOTH OF YOU WILL BE THINKING DIRRENTLY... AND ARE GOING TO HAVE A PLEASANT CONVERSATION BECAUSE YOU HAVE REALLY MISSED EACH OTHER... IF HE DOESNT CALL YOU BACK AGAIN THEN YOU NEED TO ACCEPT THAT, THAT IS HIS FINAL DECISION AND JUST KEEP STAYING AWAY ...0