Can your ex boyfriend call the police if you sent him many messages and if you sent messages to his ex without him knowing? and if you told him you will go to his house but never actually went? and if you said that you saw him with someone but you lied to see his responce? My ex boyfriend threatened me he will call his lawyer. I did all these after he told me he wants to break up but I didn't spoke to him for 3 months now. Today we spoke and he said that he was ready to call police and that if I will do something like that again he will. But he sent message now I didn't sent him. I want to live my life peacefully. Away from him. Tell me. What I should do? I'm scarred he will do it. What will happen to me if he will do this?
Most Helpful Guy
Absolutely do NOT make a false rape allegation. Jesus.
Otherwise, calm the f*ck down.
Anyone can call the police on anyone else. The likely accusations he is likely to make are such things as defamation, harrassment, and... thats probably about it. He may well try to get, and maybe get, a restraining order against you.
If you have children with him, then you should be particularly careful about your erratic behaviour. Custody could be at stake if you keep bringing drama.
If he gets a restraining order and you break it, then you are probably in some trouble. In the case of the other things, my unqualified GUESS, is that you won't face any big consequences. They might give you a warning, but thats the most likely, if anything.
The best thing you can do is slow down, calm down, and move on. And if you like, get confidential, free legal advice, before - or instead of - going to a lawyer. You can do a search for that in your area.
From what youve said though, and just from what youve said, my guess is the police are unlikely to be particularly bothered, and would be more annoyed by him calling them than anything.
Relax, slow down, and move on.1
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Most Helpful Girl
He could have at the time called the police for harassment. But since it has stopped I don't see that he has a case anymore. Just don't contact him again even if he messages you. He could be baiting you to show it hasn't stopped. Also stop making things up. You kinda went a little psycho on the guy and his ex by doing that. I don't know what he's done to you if anything because I'm only going off the info you gave. But in the future remember you can't behave that way unless you want to be charged or sued for harassment. Good luck and continue to move past it.1
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